Maybe, maybe the one’s we call freaks are normal and we are the real freaks. Normal, how do we define normal? How do we label normal? What makes one normal and other a freak?
Isn’t normal a disjointed analogy of other’s (someone who assumed that they were/are all normal) opinions and views, a collected opinionated views of a bunch of us who thought were normal. An un-calculated but trickled down norms over years and decades that we created in our own image taking in the points from the reflection of us. But what if we were never normal to even begin with?
It’s strange how we view things and how we label them while we are in this predetermined boundaries of our short-sighted thoughts and likewise. How right are we? Of perhaps the correct question should be : How wrong are we? How will we ever get to know? And what if one day there are all freaks out there, will the roles be reversed that the normal will then be called freaks and the freaks, normal? Or perhaps it had already happened!
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66 responses to “Normal”
I am the freak one,without doubt,for who consummes that much of food in one day and is still manages to eat more.
Haha, I am right next to you on this. But I must say, if this was a challenge, you are going to lose. 😛
Not a Chance,dear.
Not a chance,dear.I live for food.
Oh, you have no idea how badly you’re going to lose. 😛
Again,dear,A winner is a winner.Food is my genre,I can’t lose.
I mean you can try to win, but highly unlikely. 😛
I mean,you,right?You are saying this to yourself?I can hear your soliloquy,dear.Just Don’t be heartbroken,you are going to lose anyway.
You can hear it because it’s your own soliloquy. 😛
And hey, it’s okay to lose. You can always try again, though it will be very difficult for you to win, but you can still try your best. 😛
I need only one try,you have to try many times to beat me.(We are just literally cat fighting,It is so fun)
See, that’s what, you have to try, I don’t even have to try. It’s that easy for me. 😛
(hehe, just remember that you are losing, okay? 😛 )
Challenge accepted then!It’s sad to see people loosing,but you have to,dear,for we thrive on food,and being a bong girl,do hell with dieting,we are known as ‘foodies’,so back off.
Oh the challenge is on. I was also in Bengal for a brief period. So, I too know. And though you are foodie, it might…wait..not might. it will be quite disappointing when you lose. But don’t mind it much. You can practice and try(very very very) hard to win. 😛
You are over confident,I will know and I know that.(What will be my reward if I win?which I know I would win)
I am just very sure. Not confident or over confident at all.
That gift you should decide what you can give me. Because clearly, I and only I will win. And you know it. 😛
In that case,there is very rare type of egg that is generated out of a horse,that should be perfect reward for you.Don’t you think?
You mean you want that as a consolation prize? Sure, why not? 😛
you are imagining to be rewarded with an egg,and especially a rare kind of egg,I will fulfill your wish,after you lose the challenge.
That’s the consolation prize. I am already winning, that’s a great prize already for me. I am wondering what you will do with all those rare eggs. 😛
Put them side by side,with the politicians of our country,because rare level of nonesense only belongs with eggs of this kind.
Touché.
And I am winning Mr.Author.
Yeah, you are, in your dreams. 😛
A little correction.In my reality I am winning.And in your dreams you are winning.
A little correction to your correction.
I’m winning in your dreams, in reality and in my dreams.
You are still trying. 😛
I can only heard the word,’Trying’,So keep trying to win against me,for your purpose is destined to fail.
I heard you are having a hard time trying. But that’s okay, keep at it, one day you just might get close to third place. 😛
ok.you win.Bye.
:O
What? You gave up? This is so not like you.
I am plainy bored.
And I can still beat you,without a doubt.
Oh I see.
But you accepted defeat, didn’t you?
Eitherway, we will settle this when I’m in Kolkata next time. Deal? 😛
Deal,But still I will be the winner.
So much confidence. But I hope it doesn’t break you after the competition. 😛
We will see that.
We will. 🙂
Not a chance.
We will see. 🙂
How do you write so gracefully,I was reading some of your stories.
Hey, thank you very much for saying it.
Actually, I try to write so, like gracefully, but I don’t come close to it. But I am glad that you feel that. And to tell the truth, you are a much better graceful writer than I ever can be.
No,absolutely not,I am still learning.
Whoa, no. You’re being too humble.
You are way better than I ever could be.
Also, this is the only thing you beat me at. -_-
Nehi!!You are the better writer than me.
Nah nah, you beat me at that already. You are the sole and only winner.
So,we are playing this.Who can praise more,you are the greatest author the world has ever seen.
There is no game.
It’s a fact that, the whole of universe knows what a great and brilliant writer you are. There’s no one as good as you, or ever will be.
Being who you really are is what matters most, no matter what people say. 😉
Who we really are!
Now, how do we become the person we are. Isn’t it the things around us, the environment, the people, the hear-say, he-said she-said they-said, and the likes of it. Tell me if I am wrong?
But then again, we have our own uniqueness despite all the external factors and staying true to oneself is more important than other’s opinion. 🙂
The environment I would say is a factor. Because there’s what we call ‘nature vs nurture’. But I don’t agree with the hear-say, he said, she said, they said. That’s what they think, who I am, but what others say don’t define me. E.g. if someone call me stupid, that’s what he/she believes, but I’m not and I’ll prove that I’m not, or just let it go, and let that person see on the long run that I’m not. 🙂
I agree that what others say doesn’t define you.
But then again it’s not about what they say about you, but what they preach, lets say as a society where it says that you have to behave like this and you have to wear just this and do just that, or not do that! This so called society that is sort of defining how one should be behaving or simply put living their life does influence a person to adapt to them or grow with them. Don’t you agree?
Ah, you mean the norms in our society? Well, you have a point.. Then that,I agree.
Yeah, that. 🙂
I guess, that’s the reason we need to step the act of judging one another. Our dogma of normal being can be insanity for the next person. We only believe what we think. And whatever we think is according to our thought process. No right or wrong.
Yes, that’s exactly true. Also, we definitely should stop the act of judging one another. Everyone is different, and it’s high time we accepted them/us for the people we are, without the clauses of someone’s opinion.
Totally agree… My brother and me discuss about “What being Normal is” most of the time and then later we come to the conclusion that we definitely are very happy being the freaks 😉 😛
May be you are normal too.
Aur waise bhi, I don’t treat to freaks. 😛
Ooohh really
Well then where is my treat? U still haven’t given me treat
What treat? Day dreaming much?
This is not fair Ajay…
I don’t know about fair or anything but I can’t help if you say dream 😛 😛
When did I say dream…it is you who.is saying dream It is not at all fair…
Yeah, you’re dreaming is what I’m saying. That’s why I can’t help if you keep day dreaming. 😛
No I am not day dreaming at all…. Your treat is pending & that’s the reality
Oh Preethi ji, such nice dreams you have. 😛
Normal is a very relative concept. Normal for some one can be absolutely out of the way / not normal for other. What matters is where you stand vis a vis the subject. Acceptance is the key to live amicably!
Completely agree. Normal is a relative concept/term.
Acceptance is the key you say, acceptance to the person we are/ we have become is what it implies, right? But isn’t the person we are/have become influenced by all the factors around us which sort of define what is normal and what isn’t? Just a food for thought.